Gain confidence in online dating.

This course will help you better navigate dating apps as well as keep your mental health in check.

Cator's extensive knowledge of dating apps and relationships, combined with his coaching skills, will help you better understand how these apps can work best for you. Most importantly, this course will help you focus on your wellness as well as what you need and want through the dating process. 

The Course and the Coach

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Private Learning

Cator's entire course is easy to access and includes courses on:
  • Which app is best for you
  • How to create a profile 
  • What you want in a partner
  • What to expect/ App etiquette
  • How to deal with rejection
  • Catfishing/Scammers
  • Other places to connect with gay men
  • Sex positivity

One on One Coaching

Want to dig deeper into what is preventing you from finding a partner? Or have more guidance on how it all works? And once you start dating, how to go about it with calm, grace and compassion?

Cator is also available for private session coaching. 

About Your Dating Coach

Hey Y'all! My name is Cator Sparks and I am a certified life coach based in Charleston, South Carolina. I am an out and proud gay man and my coaching practice focuses on men and the GBTQ population. 
I’ve spent most of my life on the dating scene. I was even married and then we got a divorce. It was after that that I really realized I needed to dig deeper and really see what wasn’t working in 20 something years of dating. You know what I discovered?

A lack of self love.

I was an editor in NYC, living this amazing life, traveling the world, and connecting with wonderful people. But that lack of self love really caused so many relationships not to click. It may have been that I was too eager (LOVE ME) or that I was meeting men that really didn’t align with my values and needs. They were wonderful people but I just wanted a partner, and I didn’t delve deeper into what I really needed in a partner to make it last.

When I decided to dip back into the dating pool again, I dove in with a different perspective and a heart full of love for #1. ME. I created a profile that was authentic, with photos that really captured my essence. 

Using the apps in a fresh way helped me feel less hurt when men didn't respond, or responded five times then ghosted. It also helped me be more clear in what I wanted so if I was texting or FaceTimeing with a man before we met and I didn’t feel the magic, I could say so. I never ghosted, and always was open and honest with my feelings. In the end, I met a man I fell in love with, using the coaching tools I have learned along the way to be open, honest, and realistic with what I wanted in a partner.

As a coach for men, one of the number one topics that comes up is dating apps. How to use them, how to interact with potential dates, how to handle ghosting, and of course, do I really send dick pics?

Through these eight videos, I will share my insights on:
  • Which apps work. Dating/hooking up? Both?
  •  How to create a profile
  • What are you looking for in a partner?
  • App etiquette
  • How to deal with rejection/mental health aspects
  • What happens when you do meet someone of interest!
  • Other places to meet GBTQ men
  • And of course- do you send dick pics?!

Besides these videos, I am happy to work with you one on one to dive deeper into all of this. Check out my site- CatorSparksCoaching.com to find out more information about my dating program as well as my private coaching. 

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What our Cator's clients have to say:

I have been working with Cator for over three years and he has taken me from a place of insecurity to discovering self love, and with that, a partner. 

HF

In all of my years dating, I never thought to write out a list of what I want in a partner. This simple step as well as so many other of Cator's well thought out dating tips really helped me feel more confident to be open to dating again, and enjoying it! 

WB

Cator was with me when I was in the dating trenches and now coaches me through connecting deeper with my partner and all the things that come up with a new partner. I am grateful for our connection to maneuver through not just romance but life in general. 

JI

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